I’m hoping that you continued walking through the Bible in the last few weeks – even though I was taking a much-needed vacation. I had an enjoyable time on the Outer Banks of NC, and spent some wonderful time with my family. The surf was pretty high, and we had gale-force winds at the beginning of the week; but, the sun broke out in the later part of the week and we enjoyed some great time on the beach.
I’ve been reflecting upon one particular verse from Psalm 23 for more than a week.
In Proverbs 13:24, we read: “Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but whoever loves him is diligent to discipline him.” I’ve heard these words used, many times, to justify corporal punishment. We’ve been taught to compare the “rod” with modern-day paddles. We can use these words from the Bible to justify paddling children in order to correct their many inappropriate deeds. Some people are convinced that they can correct behavior with the swat of a paddle (or even with a hand). But is this, really, what the Bible teaches us?
The psalmist writes, in Psalm 23:4, “your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” Here, we don’t picture a shepherd whacking his sheep with his staff. In fact, human experience teaches us that sheep can’t be herded in the same way that cattle can be. Sheep aren’t lead by a shepherd’s harsh correction. Sheep are led by trust. Didn’t Jesus, Himself, tell us: “When he [the shepherd] has brought out all his own, he goes ahead of them, and the sheep follow him because they known his voice.” (John 10:4)? Parents “spare the rod” when they fail to lead their children by their own example. Parents “spare the rod” when they give-up their God-given duty to be the head of their own household, and when they fail to teach their children the ways of the Lord. When corporal punishment is born in a spirit of frustration and anger, correcting can become an abusive misuse of power. This is not what God intends. God blesses parents with children, so that they can lead them and guide them – pointing them toward the Lord and paths of righteousness. And the same is true in every part of our lives where we’re called to lead other people.
And now, here are the readings for next week:
Sunday: 1 Corinthians 3-4 – Monday: Genesis 36-39 – Tuesday: Ruth – Wednesday: Psalms 27-29 – Thursday: Job 19-20 – Friday: Isaiah 51-55 – Saturday: Matthew 26-28